My human is an editor on the Facebook Therapy Cats page, so she sees a lot of the messages that come in from followers. Most commonly, people want to know where they can buy a therapy cat. Usually they have a child with emotional or mental issues, or they have these problems themselves. They think that getting a therapy cat will help.
The thing is, these people actually aren’t looking for a therapy cat. They want a comfort, or emotional support animal. They just don’t know the difference.
A therapy cat is the pet of a volunteer for a group or organization. The cat and her owner visit hospitals, schools, nursing homes, and other facilities as a team. The therapy cat is an especially friendly, well-socialized animal who has received special training and certification to be able to visit these facilities. When the cat isn’t doing visits, she is just a regular, everyday pet. That’s me!
Emotional support animals don’t have to visit patients in hospitals, or be friendly with everyone. They just need to have a special bond with one person — the person with the mental or emotional issues who needs her. Cats are actually well suited for the role of emotional support animal, because we are sensitive and in tune with those we’re closest to. And we’re cuddly!
I will be honest — I make a way better therapy cat than I would an emotional support animal. I am great at offering purrs and comfort to cheer up strangers. At home, although my human and I are bonded and we’re great pals, I’m not that good at offering comfort to her. I actually leave that job to Binga. I’d rather hang out and do tricks and play!
So does that mean you can’t buy an emotional support cat? Oh yes, you absolutely can! And they are not that expensive. In fact, they only cost as much as your local shelter’s adoption fee. Because some of the best emotional support cats (and therapy cats, for that matter) come from shelters and rescues.
Here are some tips, if you are looking for a cat as an emotional support animal:
- Look at the adult cats. Kittens are high maintenance, and require extra care and attention. Plus their personalities aren’t established, so you don’t know for sure if she will grow up into a good emotional support cat. Look at Binga – when she was a kitten, you would have thought she’d be terrible at it! She was crazy and bouncing off the walls and, frankly, pretty annoying. Who knew she’d be the best one out of all us for offering comfort? And the reverse could be true — that calm kitten you meet may grow up to be aloof and not particularly friendly.
So check out the grown up cats, preferably those who are past the overly playful stage. You’ll be able to judge their personalities better.
- If you are looking for an emotional support cat for a child, check out the cats first, without your kid along. It’s important that you filter out the cats that wouldn’t be good prospects before your child comes along and falls in love with a cat that’s not appropriate.
- Look for a connection. If you are searching for an emotional support animal yourself, choose the cat that comes up to you easily to make friends. Ideally, she should be a love bug, who is cozy and cuddly, or a cat with qualities that suit your own personality and lifestyle. It’s even better if you feel like you’ve met her before. If you are looking for a cat for a child, ask the workers or volunteers at the shelter which ones are best with kids, and choose from those. Once you have picked several cats you think would work for your kid, bring him down and let him make his own choice from those cats.
- If you are wondering if breed cats can be emotional support animals, the answer is yes, but you are just as well off (or maybe even better off) going to a shelter. Certain breeds are better at this than others — think ragdolls and Scottish folds, for example. But if your heart is set on a breed cat, be careful to screen the breeder carefully. A badly bred cat can come with a variety of health issues and it’s important for your emotional support cat to have a good constitution. Health issues will only cause the both of you a lot of added stress.
- All cats, even emotional support cats, need time to adjust to their surroundings. It’s rare for a cat to come home and instantly be comfortable. So be patient with your new family member and give her time to adjust to everyone. She may even hide for a day or two, and that’s okay. Don’t push her into offering comfort immediately. Let her get to know you and your family on her own terms and she will naturally fall into a routine with you.
- Did I mention that your emotional support cat is a family member? I did, didn’t I? Because that’s exactly what she is, so treat her like that. The more you welcome your cat into your daily life, the more you give her love and care, the more she will give back in return.
Does an emotional support cat have more rights than other pets? Not really. If you can get a letter from your therapist prescribing an emotional support animal, you will be able to fly with her in the cabin of a commercial airplane without having to pay an extra fee. You will also be able to live with her in certain apartments that don’t normally allow pets (you will probably have to fill out a lot of paperwork, though). But other than that, your emotional support cat is just like any other pet, only better because she’s your very special pal, and will understand you when most humans can’t.
If you are looking for a cat to help you emotionally or mentally, I wish you lots of luck! I know there’s a kitty out there who is perfect for you.
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Good explanation, Summer. And thank you for suggesting that people look to adult cats at the shelter as potential emotional support cats. Thomas and Bella came from the shelter, and they were adopted as adults. Tara was rescued off the streets after she showed up on my neighbors’ doorstep and they tried unsuccessfully to locate an owner. All three of them are my emotional support cats.
Really good information, I’m sharing this one!
Sage advice!
Summer, you really have a knack for explaining things. Thank you!
My Sydney is an emotional support cat!
I’m very emotional, and I support her!
What a great, informative post! It’s good to let people know the difference in “titles.” My beloved Lady Butterfly started life as a feral cat but it quickly became obvious that she would be a therapy cat. All the residents just loved her and she loved them. In between times she was also my emotional support cat, though not officially. Lady Butterfly was just a good all around friend.
Wonderful, Summer! You explained so well about what an emotional support cat is, and how to go about finding a good one. We especially agree about asking the shelter volunteers and staff about the personalities of the kitties in their care!
That is great stuff to know and learn about. Thanks for teaching us all.
Now surely the shelters can be a bit emptier?!
Great post. You may find this hard to believe but I’m my Pop’s emotional support cat. We bonded after he got home from the hospital. I never left his side. I still off support for him. I’m afraid he’ll fall apart when the RB calls to me.
Chizzy, on the other paw, loved Grampa but when Gramps got sick with the cancer and was bedridden, Chizzy didn’t once jump on the bed with him.
I love every word here. And I am so glad you included that the more love and sense of family you give your cat, the more you get back. Too many people are under the very wrong impression that cats don’t love their people. That’s because those folks have no idea what a cat is like. Too many seem to expect the cat to behave like a dog and when it cannot, they decide there is noting to love about the cat. Hear and read it too much. Sorry. I’ll get off the soapbox.
What a wonderful post!
It was great to learn the difference between a Therapy Cat and Emotional Support cat.
Another reason to support local shelters yoo 🙂
Purrs Georgia,Julie and JJ
Fabulous post! I love that you said an emotional support cat can be found right at your local shelter. Even if it’s not “official,” all cats provide emotional support for their humans.
That’s a wonderful and very informative post, Summer!
Purrs,
The Chans
Very informative post!
The Florida Furkids
You summed it up so nicely pretty Summer!!!
The Hubby claims that Manny and Chili Bruce are his emotional support kitties, but he doesn’t go anywhere. Great post, thanks Summer!
Outstanding post, Summer. Plus, we are all for adopting an older shelter cat. We give an endless and priceless return for a real home.
Excellent post Summer. I adore you, but I would never buy a therapy cat. I am too lazy to do all the work involved and I could never be that patient as your human when kids are near my cat.
When we first read the title we thought “buy a therapy cat?”, it didn’t seem like something you’d do. We are all shelter kitties, we were bottle babies so we have a super bond with our human. We know she loves us very much but our brother was different and helped her the most with her PTSD and other issues. She’s still in denial and even though we are kitties we know that’s not healthy. She doesn’t consider us “emotional support animals”, we are simply family. The term has been used a lot lately and this post is so important because we were just abandoned at the shelter and we’ve never had any special training except for learning how to beg for treats. She loves us all equally but our brother was as you describe Binga. It’s very important to differentiate as we know how much work had gone into your training to do your therapy visits. Both provide comfort but they are very different.
Thanks for sharing what an emotional therapy cat is, Summer. We think our mom is a little crazy, so we must be emotional therapy cats for her. 🙂
Great post Summer. And some good advice.
What a wonderful informative post Summer.
We had no idea Binga was a former Therapy Kit Kat!!!
Hugs madi your bfff
At mom’s stores she has actually come across a few people who have adopted adult cats with the intentions of providing emotional support for one of their children. These kitties were not trained in any special way. Their purrsonalities were just of a different laid back nature. It’s always best to spend one on one time with a potential adoptee. Take your time. We just love hearing about great love and support connections. Thank you for this so valuable information Summer. Purrs
This is an excellent tutorial. It still surprises us that Binga is such a good support cat, honestly, but surprising is probably one of her favorite tricks.
Thank you for this! I know a sweet, friendly boy who visits a nursing home. The residents just love him.
This is great information! We still get confused about the difference between the two. Lexy and I are pseudo emotional support animals. We go through periods throughout the week where we follow Mommy all around the house and stick by her. And then at other times, we just do our own thing. When she’s sick, well, we don’t do much extra.
Thanks for the great information, Summer!